Dorothy “Dottie” Dator, Ph.D.

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Services

  • Behavioral support for parents using the PCIT model and other behavioral principles

  • Therapy for children, teens, and young adults

  • Parent consultations for concerns related to behavior, academics, toilet training, sleep difficulties, and management of chronic medical conditions

  • Psychological evaluations

  • Educational testing

  • Neuro-affirming social skills support 

  • Safety planning 

Approach

I have a strong behavioral background, with extensive knowledge of behavioral principles that I apply to helping parents with everyday challenges. In my work with parents, I focus on finding the purpose (What’s the function?!) of the challenging behavior and then applying an intervention that meets that same need. This means that the child’s needs continue to be met, but in a way that is appropriate and functional in daily life. This can be applied to any challenging behavior regardless of the function! I have experience in this type of treatment with both neurotypical and neurodivergent children, and I modify treatment to meet individual needs as we go. We will figure it out together, and I will guide you through the process until you feel confident in your own abilities to manage daily behavioral challenges. The most rewarding thing about my work is seeing how using these strategies improve parent-child relationships and seeing that sense of relief in parents once they develop confidence in their abilities to meet any challenge that comes their way. The strategies I use with parents are based on my extensive training in parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT) and behavioral principles. 

Regarding counseling and other interventions, I have experience working with children, teens, and young adults. I generally use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) but pull from other therapies depending on what the individual client needs. Sometimes this means going back to the basics of learning more about emotions, developing a behavioral plan for struggles associated with ADHD, facing fears in the context of phobias or obsessive-compulsive behavior, or processing trauma in a safe and age-appropriate way. Therapies that I pull from include dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), exposure and response prevention (ERP), trauma-focused CBT (TF-CBT), and a neuro-affirming approach to applied behavior analysis (ABA). My professional interests include OCD, autism, ADHD, trauma-informed care, identity-affirming care, educational advocacy, parent-child relationships, and comprehensive psychological assessment. 

More about Me

I have lived experience of undiagnosed OCD and ADHD as a young child and teen. My struggles caused me to feel very isolated growing up, and I experienced frequent conflict with my parents because I did not know how to tell them what was wrong. While I was going through this, several areas of my life suffered, including academics, peer relationships, and the relationship with my family. This experience has been the driving force behind my passion for psychology. I see accurate diagnosis as the basis for effective treatment, which is why I have an interest in doing comprehensive psychological evaluations. I also have a passion for supporting children and teens through their journey to self-understanding and self-disclosure to safe people, as well as helping them find the tools they need to manage ongoing challenges, whether social, psychological, behavioral, or emotional. I have one school-aged daughter, who is the absolute light of my life. I love traveling, dogs, the beach, music, and sunshine. I play the violin and am currently teaching myself how to do stained glass! I have also tiled a whole bathroom on my own, which is one of my crowning achievements. 

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Credentials

Services

  • Behavioral support for parents using the PCIT model and other behavioral principles
  • Therapy for children, teens, and young adults
  • Parent consultations for concerns related to behavior, academics, toilet training, sleep difficulties, and management of chronic medical conditions
  • Psychological evaluations
  • Educational testing
  • Neuro-affirming social skills support 
  • Safety planning

Areas of Focus

  • OCD
  • Autism
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety and mood-related challenges
  • Aggression
  • Non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI)
  • Suicidal thoughts and behaviors 
  • Sensory driven behaviors 
  • Academic difficulties
  • Identity exploration
  • Caregiver stress

Education and Licensure

  • Ph.D. in Health Psychology with a concentration in Pediatric-School Psychology from East Carolina University (2023)
  • M.A. in School Psychology from East Carolina University (2020). 
  • B.A. in Psychology from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro (UNCG; 2015). 
  • B.A. in Sociology from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, 2007
  • Licensed Psychologist, North Carolina Psychology Board
  • Health Services Provider Psychologist (HSP-P) – North Carolina Psychology Board

Trainings

  • Trauma Focused CBT 
  • Parent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)
  • Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule (ADOS), 2nd Edition
  • Behavioral principles and ABA 
  • Clinical supervision